I 100% agree and this is one of the few cases where I think digital intervention can help create accord in a relationship rather than straining it. Apps (like Honeydue) can help couples avoid the constant money battle that is both surface level and subconscious by making expectations and requests very clear. These kinds of interventions are also very helpful for introverted/ shy people to get what they want while avoiding conflict. It’s a win/win.

Thanks for writing this!